Which exterior accessories best complement the Volkswagen Jetta GLI's sporty look?

What exterior accessories are actually going to make my GLI look more aggressive without going overboard? I just got a 2023 in Pure Gray and while the red accents are cool the car feels a bit too regular Jetta from certain angles especially the rear end. I have about 800 bucks set aside for some cosmetic stuff right now and I'm really torn between two different directions.

First option is going with the Aerofabb front splitter and maybe their rear spoiler extension. I keep seeing them on Instagram and the fitment looks super clean like it came from the factory that way. My concern is I live in Chicago and the potholes here are basically craters so I'm scared of snapping a 400 dollar piece of plastic on day one. It just seems like a lot of money for something that sits two inches off the ground.

The other route I'm looking at is the ECS Tuning gloss black kit... specifically their trunk lip and maybe some side skirts. It would let me do more parts for the same money but I’ve heard their quality control can be hit or miss lately with the mounting tape and gaps not being perfect. I really want that OEM plus vibe where it looks like a special edition from VW directly.

Which one would you guys pick if you were trying to keep it tasteful? Should I prioritize one high quality piece or get the full wrap-around look with something a bit cheaper?