Recommended roof rack and cargo accessories for Volvo V60 Cross Country?

I just got this 2023 V60 Cross Country and I am already hitting a wall with the roof rack situation. Like I spent all this money on a lifestyle car and now I cant even figure out how to put my skis on it without feeling like I am gonna rip my garage door down. I looked at the Thule WingBar Edge because everyone says they are the gold standard for being quiet and low profile but then I see the Volvo OEM ones on the accessories site and they look... almost identical? But the price is way different and some guys on a random forum were saying the OEM ones actually sit higher which is exactly what I dont want. My garage in Seattle has like zero clearance and I am freaking out about the Whistler trip we have planned in three weeks.

So my logic was to just buy everything from the dealer to make it easy but the parts guy was clueless about the actual height increase. Then I look at the Thule Motion XT boxes because I need to fit four sets of skis plus boots and my budget is topping out around 1200 bucks for the whole setup. Is that even realistic? I read that the Motion XT L fits the V60 perfectly without blocking the hatch but then someone else said it hangs over the windshield and looks stupid. I am just so frustrated because every time I think I have a kit picked out I find a thread saying the mounting hardware whistles at 60mph or the sunroof wont tilt.

And dont get me started on the flush rails vs raised rails thing. I think mine are flush? They dont have the gap underneath. If I go with Yakima is the Whispbar still a thing or did they discontinue that? I just want something that doesnt make the car look like a tall utility van and actually stays quiet when I am driving up to BC. Does anyone actually have this specific car and a box that lets them into a standard 7-foot garage? Or am I just dreaming at this point...